For confidentiality purposes, Client Anonymous came to me because she : “Wanted peace and for my husband to be aware of his irrational, angry and defensive behavior. I knew I had to grow/shift for this to transpire. Through our work I regained my center and sense of self and self esteem that I didn’t even realize I had lost! I gained Realization that I had to have healthy boundaries and self respect so I didn’t “allow him” to behave this way to me. It’s the happiest I’ve ever been in my marriage. He is a completely different person. Actually he’s his “true” self – kind, loving, warm! When I became non reactive to his irrational, highly defensive and uncalled for behavior, stood my ground with dignity, relative calm and self respect, I became like a mirror for him and he was able to SEE himself and begin his process of growth.